Wednesday, July 10, 2013
Emotions operate on many levels. They affect our thoughts, our words, and our actions. If we don’t have control over our emotions, they can do damage to all aspects of our lives. Our emotions are one of four parts of our being. We have a spiritual, emotional, intellectual, and physical aspect to our whole being.
"'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind'; and, 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'” Luke 10:27
- Heart – spiritual
- Soul – emotional
- Mind – intellectual
- Strength – physical
I think we will agree that we are aware of the need to feed our mind, attend to our spirit, and take care of our bodies. Most people don’t realize the necessity of caring for our emotional selves.
If we allow our emotions to control us, we are little more than a reactionary animal. REMEMBER: We want to be proactive about our emotional responses. The more we know about ourselves the better armed we can be when we face our emotional battles. We all have emotional buttons that get pushed. If we respond only through our emotional portal, we will probably have an inappropriate emotional response. However, when we use our whole being to process the stimuli, we have a much better chance of responding in a Christ-like way.
Let’s take a further look at the connection between our mind and our emotions.
The amygdale , also known as the lizard brain, is the emotional center in the brain that when overloaded with emotion, can trigger an irrational, emotional response. It is responsible for our fear, anger, and negativity. It is responsible for our fight or flight reflex. When we feel any emotion, especially fear or anger, the lizard brain kicks in and sends an alarm to every part of the brain. Our motion centers are alerted so our muscles become tense. Our heart rate and blood pressure increase and breath slows.
Do you see how this process connects the mind, body, and emotions? What effect do you think it has on our spirit??
The problem is that the amygdala gets a head start before the rational part of our brain can react. This gap is about six seconds. There is a lot of truth in the old adage to count to 10 before you react.
Are you prepared to respond to emotional stimuli? Being ready when the lizard brain is alerted is key to controlling our emotional responses. We need practice positive proactive emotional responses and in doing so, protect our mind, spirit, and body.
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